not following the directions caused me to get stuck on this one.
using SharePoint Designer, backup the site you want.
Site –>Administration –>Backup Web Site –> Select a location and save
create an empty site. (this is where i messed up)
to create an empty site do the following:
File –> Web Site –> General –> Empty Web Site –> Enter a site name
Then you will have a empty site to restore to.
Site –>Administration –>Restore Web Site –> Select your backup file –> Click Advanced (make sure your new empty site name is there) –> Click OK