If Appear Offline is not enabled in your Lync app, here is how you can enable the option.
Navigate to the following registry (regedit):
\HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Policies\Microsoft\Communicator
Right-click on Communicator, add a DWORD called EnableAppearOffline (32bit) and give it a value of 1.
Restart Lync and the status should be there.